Tuesday, June 28, 2005

I've noticed something that makes me so mad, and almost so mad to the point of tears. Some people change when they get into relationships. and its not , oh, i'm gonna hang out with them today, and we'll do lunch later, its the, hey, since i'm in a relationship, i'm never gonna talk to you again. its the, hey, i'm better than you because i have someone i'm infatuated with, and dont want to talk to anyone, kinda attitude. I've realized i've lost 3 really good friends in the past 9 months because of it. or at least i thought they were really good friends, but who knows. i mean, we went from the , hey wats up, to hanging out all the time, now we're to the point of " so yea, hey" kinda relationship. i hate when people change for someone, i mean, yea, you have to change a lil at least, but you can't block everyone else out, you have to keep your friends, because you may not always be in a relationship with this person, then who are you going to turn to if you blocked all of your friends out the first week you started dating? specially when you claim to be desperatly in love, after a week of dating. i can almost guarentee, unless you've been friends for some time, you're not gonna have a good relationship, and if you do and decide to get married, its not gonna be the greatest thing in your life. but whatever, ugggg, it just makes me so mad, that i've lost 3 friends because they ditched me when they got into a relationship. whatever, vbs is good, cant wait for tonight, i get to blow my nose on my sister!

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

although they did you wrong in the end. you should not stay too mad for too long because i am sure that there are alot of people who would not change and love you too much as a friend to just drop you for a relationship. just remember those are not your only friends and that there are many ways to figure out who your real friends are. luv ya bunches